Although not every transgender individual is interested in pursuing a full transition, transgender counseling can still be helpful in achieving a healthy, balanced life. Because there is so much misinformation about what it means to be transgendered, the use of the term can open the door to ridicule or speculation about the individual. In addition, the experience of being a transgendered individual, learning to accept it, and learning to accept yourself can be bewildering. Unfortunately, counselors can do as much damage as good for anyone on that journey. As a result, it is necessary to know what to look for, as well as what to avoid, when seeking transgender therapy.

Transgender therapy is not simply an extension of basic counseling, although there are counselors who claim to serve the transgendered population and work under that assumption. There are similarities between transgender counseling and other basic types of therapy, however. Both should offer a safe, secure, confidential place to talk, allowing you to discuss your feelings, thoughts and fears without reprisal, embarrassment or having your words made public. In addition, counselors should be supportive, helping you work toward self-awareness and self-acceptance, without being manipulative or abusive.

There are several things to look for in transgender counseling. Experienced counselors can differentiate between transgender and gender identity disorder, which may seem similar but are actually very different. Further, the counselor should not attempt to fix you, cure you, or impose moral judgment. Instead, a counselor helps you to develop an understanding and appreciation of who you are, while also helping you to explore all of your options. In addition, a good transgender counselor offers referrals, or assistance in locating help with medical, legal and financial issues. Transgender therapy can include couples and family therapies, helping those around you understand transgender issues. Experienced counselors can also help you find transgender groups that support transgender individuals and/or families.

The purpose of transgender counseling is to help transgender people develop an acceptance of who they are, not to force them into seclusion because of shame or confusion. While isolation is common in transgendered individuals, it is generally caused by denial and social withdrawal. Transgender therapy can help you deal with all of these issues, allowing you to take on a full role in every aspect of society, including work, social settings and places of worship. While there will be counselors who attempt to manipulate or abuse transgendered clients, understanding what to look for in a counselor can help you avoid those who will do more harm than good.

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